Shyness affects all areas of life, including sentimental relationships. Men and women can see how love shyness harms their emotional life with serious consequences. But shyness can be overcome and also that loving shyness that some men suffer when they are face to face with a woman.
Men can also overcome shyness in love
- Shyness implies a certain social inhibition, so it is evident that one of the many consequences of being shy is when it comes to relating to other people. When shyness is more intense with people of the opposite sex, we can begin to talk about shyness in love, something that men and women suffer alike and that makes their love life enormously difficult.
- A man who suffers from this type of love-shyness is incapable of approaching a woman. Self-esteem plays a fundamental role, since its effects are insecurity, fear of ridicule and hypersensitivity when facing a possible rejection. The basic premise for men to overcome their shyness in love is naturalness. When a person is able to show himself as he is, the situation begins to become more comfortable.
- Men who are shy in love are afraid to engage in a conversation with a woman they like because they suffer from what is known as anticipatory anxiety. They ‘know’ in advance that they are going to stutter, that they are going to break out in a sweat and maybe even notice some tremor. The only way to overcome these shy anxiety symptoms is to focus on the other person rather than yourself.
- It can help those love-shy men a lot to know that we are not as transparent as we think, that perhaps the blush is not so noticeable, nor the tremor of the voice is so evident. In any case, it is urgent to improve self-esteem, because this feeling of inferiority is not only dangerous when it comes to finding a partner, but also when it comes to maintaining a healthy and equal relationship.
